Birds of a Feather...

I want to talk about something really important that will profoundly impact your life - whether for better or worse. It's a principle you've all heard many times before and that is: "Birds of a Feather Flock Together". While this phrase has certainly become a cliche, do not let that undermine the weight of the statement. I cannot even begin to tell you how this principle has affected me throughout my life, both positively and negatively.

Simply stated, if you want to be successful at something (bodybuilding or whatever), you need to surround yourself with people that are successful in that endeavor. Doing so will greatly facilitate your own progress and development. If you surround yourself with positive, energetic, goal-orientated, upbeat people, you will feed off their energy and be more positive yourself. Similarly, "misery loves company" so if all your friends and associates are negative, you too will eventually succumb to those thought patterns and actions. The life and enthusiasm will be sucked out of you.

For example, I am part of a mastermind investing group comprised of like-minded, driven individuals that strive to succeed. Also, I have several close friends that are serious bodybuilders. The synergy of these interactions and groups helps everyone achieve a higher level of success.

The basic lesson you need to take away from all this is to hang out and associate with people that have the same goals as you, and avoid people that will drain your energy and spirit. This includes friends, family, co-workers, etc. - even though it's not as easy as it sounds.

Hope this wasn't too "preachy" but it's really an important principle that I've learned over the years.

'till next time...

J